Sunday, July 31, 2011

Baby Hawk Review





Baby Hawk Mei Tai
Cost: $89.00 USD
Location: Amazon 

Pros: 
  • I have tried about four carriers prior to this and this is hands down the most comfortable! Trust me that is important! 
  • It is stylish and can be customized which I love! 
  • You can carry the baby on the front OR the back...safely.
  • It can hold a baby/toddler up to 35 pounds.
  • It is comfortable to wear and doesn't make you feel hot like other carriers.
  • It is easy to figure out unlike others on the market. The wraps are easy peasy! 
Cons:

  • My only con was disappointment that I did not get it sooner. That is my honest opinion. This is by far the best carrier I have tried. I recommend this without reservations.
Take Home Message: I love this wrap and most importantly so does my baby! She is happy and comfy in it and what more can a mother ask for. If you have tried other carriers with no success try this one! It worked for us really well when other ones didn't. 


Cliques in the Church

 Doesn't this seem like such a conflicting concept? When you think about church's do you consider cliques? When I first came to church I did not even think about that as a factor. However, slowly but surely you can see who is who, who likes who, and what they think about you. Perhaps, you don't fit into the culture or you don't look like you belong. Nonetheless, church cliques are very real and extremely detrimental to the body of Christ.

Then I thought, well Jesus had has disciples which is kind of like a clique. They were His ride or die, you know what I mean? But, the difference between then and now is simple...EXCLUSION. All though Jesus did have this disciples, He did not exclude others.

Romans:12:16 says, "Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position" (New International Version).

Saints of the Most High God.....Listen Up.....(And Lord help me to practice what I preach). Real talk, we need to cut that out. Notice I said WE. I have seen both sides of it and it hurts....it hurts your heart. Why perpetuate it any longer? Lets stop the madness.

Challenge for US: Talk to someone outside of your normal gal/guy pals (<---Seriously did I just write that lol).  Get to know them and embrace them. We need each other. Loneliness and lack of belonging is a problem in the church. Adam experienced it in the Garden of Eden long before Eve was there. He had everything he could EVER want but was still lonely. Can you imagine how someone else feels?

I am anti cliques in the name of Jesus!

Saturday, July 30, 2011

What's up with Christians dating Unbelievers?







Enlighten me please. We need to get serious about this. The Word of God says this ""Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?" (2 Cor. 6:14, KJV). What is God saying here? He is saying do not go there! But what's up with Christians still going there? The Bible is so clear on this matter but yet we try to make it gray by saying "Well he/she is coming to church?" or "Jesus knows their heart"! Yea, God does know their heart but He knows yours too! Who are you fooling? God...I think not. 


Deut 22:10 says "You must not plow with an ox and a donkey harnessed together". Someone out there gets what I am saying here. The two do not go together. By nature, these two animals are inherently different and have different agendas. This metaphorically relates to the above. 


Let me break it down in another way. Oil and water don't mix. This is basic chemistry. Now that we are on the same page. These two things do not mix because they cannot form bonds (And the rocks said Amen). Water is a polar molecule and there is an equal sharing of hydrogen and electronegative oxygen. Oil, on the other hand, is made up of hydrocarbon chains and is water hating. But someone out there is saying slow your roll you don't know my man or my chick? They don't hate God. If you are not for God then you are against God.Thus, if you do not love God...... I think you smell what I am stepping in. These two things do not mix. Much like a Christian and Unbeliever you can put them together but the two are inherently different. Their make up is different. 


God's chemistry is the right Chemistry. 


My message may not be popular but it is Truth. I take truth over popularity any day! 

Friday, July 29, 2011

Want to get your blog noticed TODAY?

  1. Content is crucial. Make sure what you are writing about is interesting and/or helpful in some way. 
  2. Edit, revise, and edit again (ERE)! I know it sounds redundant but it is necessary to say. No one likes to read something that is not well thought out and lacks basic punctuation. 
  3. Image is everything. Make it aesthetically pleasing folks! Oh and that is simple and free! I love free!
  4. Link your post to Facebook and other social media.
  5. Post regularly. Daily if you can. Heck, a few times a day if possible. 
  6. Shamelessly plug your blog in your signature, on your business cards, basically anywhere you can. 
  7. Use www.pingomatic.com. This thing gets your blog to several different sites and it's totally free. Did I mention I love free?
  8. Last but certainly not least, use www.digg.com! This thing is AWESOME! Even if people don't "digg" your stuff at least they are looking at it. Hey, I'll take something over nothing any day. 
Have any more tips? Please comment and share them with me! 

The BEST Time to Have SEX

Morning, evening, or afternoon you wonder? The best time to have sex by far is the time in your life when you are married. Gotcha, I mean what did you think I was going to say. No but seriously, I was listening to this great sermon on You Tube by PastorJustinP4CM about the best time to have sex and I thought I would share.

WARNING: THE INFORMATION BELOW IS PROFOUND.

God has a design for intimacy and sex. He created us humans as sexual beings with sexual desires. He wants us to have GREAT sex.... but in the right time and place. I will use PastorJustinP4CM's analogy. Think about drinking milk. It has a best enjoyed by [insert date]. Why is that? Well it serves as that company's gurantee that the milk will be great IF you drink it within that particular time frame. THE SAME WITH SEX! Sex is BEST enjoyed during marriage.


MATTHEW 5:27-28 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. "

10 Property Management Secrets No One Will Tell You!



10. Renters have more power than they think. You think the manager of your office doesn't have someone to answer to? If you have a complaint and they aren't cutting it. Get yourself to the Regional Property Manager and see if things don't turn around.

9. The leasing staff loves to talk about you. But when you come into the office ranting about your life, you bet we will talk about it.

8.Fair Housing is real and renters have rights! If you are being treated unfairly check to see if you fall under a protected class. They will never tell you this because its bad for publicity.

7. It takes time to be evicted (Legal Mumbo Jumbo) If you get a three day notice that does not mean literally three days. But this letter can and will put eviction in motion if you don't comply.

6. Your unit may have been tore up from the floor up before you moved in...but we fixed and made it rent ready so you never knew the difference :)

5. A property that is not kept up from the outside (lawn maintenance) is not a good sign. The property may be going through a transition that you may not want to deal with.

4. Leasing staff can't tell you about the people that live there. For instance, if we know a lot of children or one particular race lives there. If you ask us we cannot tell you, it is a illegal.

3. Following up to number 4, if you want to know if you will like it there. Drive around and see the property. Do it in the evening or night.

2. When you're renewing your lease you have a little power. Management does not want you to go. It brings down the occupancy percentage and we don't want that. Ask them to clean your carpet and you'll renew. See what happens.

1. We can't tell you if the area is safe. But if you want to know if the leasing staff really likes the property ask them if they live there :) If they say no, chances are they would not live there so would you?

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Top Ten Favoriate Things




10. Mangos-I love and adore mangos. My gosh have you every had a ripe mango? I'll take the mess for the taste any day.
9. Febreeze Air Fresheners-I love how they make my home smell. I walk past them on purpose sometimes (guilty).
8.BMW's-Enough said! (That's right hubby I said it)
7. Preachas- I know it is spelled incorrectly! But it was done intentionally. I love a preacher that will preach! So he or she is not just a preacher but a preacha!
6.  Animal Print- My home is decorated with several animal print things. I love the vibe it gives a room, for me it just adds something :) WARNING: TOO MUCH IS JUST TACKY! I'm just sayin'....
5. Writing-I love to write. Give me a topic and I am good to go!
4. Flat Screen TV's- I know I am late. I just got my first flat screen TV May 2011. Laugh all you want! :)
3. Dooney and Bourke-Those are some fabulous purses! I have a diaper bag by this company and I love it. Not to mention its a beautiful bag! Review to follow (stay tuned).
2. Pampers Wipes (Sensitive)-Those are the best darn wipes around. They are moist and smell so good! They make a poopy bottom smell fresh :)
1. Big Brother-This is my all time favorite show. I love that show! Watch it and you'll see!

What has God called you to do?

Simple BE WHO YOU IS! This message is the truth! We serve an extraordinary God. Don't try to be someone you are not. Be true to God and be true to you!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuDUAawmwvk


Glam Up Your Bathroom Inexpensively

Don't have a medicine cabinet in your bathroom?

That's ok you don't need one! See my simple easy fix for not having a bathroom medicine cabinet. I got this mirror from TjMaxx for about $16.00 USD and I happen to think it looks glam and chic for cheap! I love a great find that is affordable and looks expensive, don't you? It totally looks like it belongs there and makes my bathroom look upscale. LOVE IT!

Make your Resume Great

Want to make your resume work for you? Follow my tips below and get your resume noticed by the person that matters, the hiring manager! 

  1. Have more than one resume: There are many different styles of resume. Find the one that suits you and your field best. I like to use the chronological resume style. But, if you are changing fields you may need to change resume styles too. An HR professional advised me of this, and she was right!
  2. Consider adding a summary of qualifications: This is a paragraph style snapshot of what you have to offer. It is no more than seven or eight sentences and should sell your skill set to your employer. 
  3. Focus on your accomplishments: This is a common mistake that I made in the beginning. I am telling you so that you won't make that same mistake.Think back to your accomplishments and achievements. Have you saved time or money? Have you improved processes? These are the things employers want to read.
  4. Cliche statements are out: Detail oriented does not say enough about who you are or what you have to offer an organization. They want to see to the cold hard facts. 
  5. Don't underestimate the power of Numbers: Numbers and percentages look great on a resume. An example of this would be something like the following: Decreased expenses by 15% through implementing new software system. 
As I learn more tips I will share them with you. Happy Blogging. Hope this helps someone! 

My Do's and Don'ts for New Mothers and Mothers to Be



Do:

  •  Do Stock up on diapers, formula, and wipes. My rule of thumb (always have two extra). Two extra boxes of diapers, Wipes, Formula (so and so forth).
  • Do buy at least one can of formula....even if you plan to breastfeed. Just in case.
  • Do listen to the advice you get from other mothers....but...implement what works best for you.
  • Do take the help you are offered. If someone asks to help you, accept and thank them. Take the time to rest and relax...You've earned it.
  • Do understand that our plans do not always work out. I had a birth plan written out with several copies to hand to the doctors and nurses. I even had a Douala to make sure my wishes were expressed. But not everything on my birth plan happened and that is ok.
  • Do bring size newborn and 0-3 in your labor and delivery bag.  My peanut was 5 pounds when she was born much too small for her fabulous 0-3 outfit.
Don't:

  • Don't worry the baby will not break! Be gentle they are fragile but trust me the baby will not break.
  • Don't buy too many clothes...I know despite the urge to shop (and believe me honey I have it)...Wait it out until after your baby shower. All your friends want to buy cute little mini clothing and trust me they will. 
  • Don't worry about your crying baby in public. They were all there once whether they remember or not. Baby's cry that's what they do...assess the situation and do not panic. 
  • Don't miss the signs of postpartum depression. It is very real and nothing to be ashamed of. 
  • Don't feel bad if you don't get the mothering instinct instantly. It was not instantaneous for me but rather gradual. 
Reference: 

Experience....Trial and Error :)

Product Review: Eco Styler Olive Oil Gel

Cost: $3.00-$5.00 USD
Locations: Sallys, Amazon.Com

Pros:

  • Great gel for curl definition and smoothing hair
  • You get a lot in the container for cheap (In my humble opinion).
  • It does not get hard like other hair styling gels.
  • There is no alcohol so this does not dry out your hair after a long day.
  • Makes my hair shiny and pretty looking (In my humble opinion). 
Cons:

  • Some have said it leaves white particles. I think that depends on what products you put it together with. I would recommend using it with (water and olive oil mixture in spray bottle). I have heard mixing it with cantu shea butter will leave white particles. 


Take home message: Buy this product (lol...only if you want to)!  It works for my 3C hair very well. It easily smooths my curly transitioning hair. It makes your hair look supple and pretty. I really love this product and it is my new best friend to say the least.

Product Review: Herbal Essences Hello Hydration Conditioner


Cost: $3.00 and $5.00 USD
Locations: Any big box retailer (Walmart, Target, CVS,  Rite Aid, Walgreen's)

Pros:

  • Smells great! I really like the Smell.
  • Makes my hair feel soft. I have 3C African American Hair.
  • It's affordable so if you don't like it. You are not out a lot of money. 
  • First ingredient water, which shows there is a lot of water in the product.
Cons:

  • Second ingredient is alcohol. Based on my knowledge, this is known to dry out hair. 
  • There are A LOT of ingredients I cannot pronounce and have never heard of it. 
  • In my opinion, this is not the best conditioner for my hair.


Take home message: There are better conditioners for your hair. This is not the worst (I'm sure) but it is not the best for me. Would I buy it again? Probably not and I will be looking into better conditioners for my co washing. Based on the amount of alcohol in the product I would not recommend it.

Transitioning from Relaxed to Natural Tips

1. Be Patient-Be patient with your hair. It will grow because that's what hair does. Hair grows approximately 1/2 inch each month. Be patient with your hair.

2. Get to know your hair-I recommend you get to know your hair type (My hair type is 3C). Get to know what your hair likes and what it doesn't like.

3. Watch Youtube-There are so many fabulous tutorials on hair types and hair products and hair styles and they are updated almost daily. My faves are kimmyatube and taren916 to name a couple.

4. Protective styles- These are important and will help you retain length. Sometimes we think our hair isn't growing when in actuality its just we are not retaining the length.

5. Learn the difference between moisture and lubrication-Grease is lubrication and a good leave in conditioner adds moisture. Moisture is essential.

Be who you are...